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Category Archives: philosophy
Am I enough? Am I doing enough?
I’ve been struggling a bit lately with a sense of mediocrity and a feeling of confusion about what I should be trying to do with my life. I can’t seem to shake the belief that I owe someone something for … Continue reading
Responsibility and Stoicism
A constant theme running through many of my recent posts has been around the overburdening of individuals with responsibility for their own plight. Shame resilience, for example, is partially about letting ourselves off the hook, and empathising with each other’s struggles, failings, … Continue reading
Posted in philosophy, politics, social justice, Stoicism
Tagged personal responsibility, Stoicism
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Learning to relax
I have written before about being driven to be highly organised, and not feeling sure whether this is an entirely healthy thing. I’ve been thinking about this again in light of my recent forays into Brene Brown’s shame resilience work, … Continue reading
Posted in personal reflection, philosophy, self-improvement, Stoicism, suffering
Tagged creativity, fear, premeditation of adversity, Stoicism, uncertainty
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Stoicism, acceptance and happiness
I have a negative bent, a tendency to see the bad in life more clearly than the good. I get very affected by bad news – and there’s a lot of it: worsening inequality, dismantling of the welfare state, another financial crisis potentially … Continue reading
Posted in absolute goodness, meditation, morality, personal reflection, philosophy, Stoicism, suffering, Sunday Assembly
Tagged eudaimonia, happiness, Stoicism
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Stoicism
I just read “The Antidote: Happiness for People Who Can’t Stand Positive Thinking” by Oliver Burkemann. It presented several different counter-intuitive paths to happiness, having first discussed the limitations and ineffectiveness of a lot of the “positive thinking” cult. One … Continue reading
Posted in philosophy, Stoicism, suffering
Tagged happiness, negativity, Oliver Burkemann, Stoicism, worry
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God Revised
A while ago, I attended a service at my local Unitarian church led by a guest minister: Galen Guengerich from New York. I enjoyed it enough to want to read his book “God Revised: how religion must evolve in a … Continue reading
Posted in God, is religion good or bad for you?, morality, philosophy, science, Unitarian
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Clarity: my new understanding of mindfulness
I have been interested in meditation as a way of improving quality of life ever since I first read about it in 2004, and have even dabbled in it from time to time. I find its track record in healthcare … Continue reading
Choosing beliefs: is it possible?
I recently read a book on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. Under its instruction, I have begun to learn how to examine myself whenever I experience difficult feelings or moods, and identify the thoughts underpinning these feelings. I have begun learning to … Continue reading
Posted in personal reflection, philosophy, science, self-improvement
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